Dedicated to SS501 4D Leader Kim Hyun Joong

“The truth is not always black and white, it’s shades of gray” By Jackie Kim

The truth is not always black and white, it’s shades of gray.

By Jackie Kim

I was holding back and biting my lips this whole situation BUT NO MORE BEING QUIET. Kim Hyun Joong who’s been accused by his Ex girlfriend of 2 month, not 1 year or 2 years as reported by most on line K-pop site and news well so call news outlet in South Korea to all over Asia and even to the USA Yahoo.

Why are people so quick to judge? Are they God and do they know what happened in Kim Hyun Joong personal living room or bedroom? Were they in the room when they had their break up? Were you a bug on the wall and saw everything, what they said what they augured about; every little details they saw huh?

Oh yes we his fans been misled, fooled, droop, for over 10 years. Wow and I thought people said Kim Hyun Joong can’t act to save his life. Darn I guess we his fans are all stupid and dumb huh? In that 10 years in the spotlight, not one girl he has dated has came out to confirm Miss A accusation. Not one girl has come forward and back up Miss A claims. I know Kim Hyun Joong has dated many girls even he said that himself.

The Korean media, what can I say they love to see others fall from grace, especially idols and government official and even the president. I am Korean born in South Korea, bilingual in both Korean and English, lucky me I can hear all and see all the media and blogs and tweets. That’s why I stop looking reading listening those who are so happy almost gity in what is going on with Kim Hyun Joong. Some not all are so quick to judge other without knowing all the fact, without knowing all the evidence. I guess they never went through any break up huh? That everyone has a perfect relationship huh?

Just my own opinion but what about knowing all the facts and real evidence before you trashing someone good name? Here in the USA and most countries, what about a person is innocent until proven guilty? Hey doesn’t that sound logical, no?

Here are that facts, Kim Hyun Joong has never been charged now or in the past, never been arrested in the past or currently, He has never been convicted of hitting beating or any kind of abused towards a woman. I know you haters out hate miss those little facts. Those are the real true facts, I didn’t pull it out from the sky.

Break up…hmm I know I had a few myself and it’s not pretty, it’s ugly painful heart breaking thing and that’s why they call it a Break up. People handle break up in he or she own ways. Some beg others cried some want revenge and want the one who broke your heart to pay whether emotionally or finically and a few even kill for their pain as payback.

Now lets look at the evidence.
Was Kim Hyun Joong leaving his country in fear? Hello people, his world tours was schedule and book months ago. So I guess some people think he should what, cancel all his tours that fans bought tickets already ahead months ago and just say sorry fans Kim Hyun Joong has cancel his tours because he’s afraid to leave his house…yea right I’m sure SMtown or any other companies would that.

What is Kim Hyun Joong guilty of really? Oh yes he wanted to end his relationship of 2 month with his now EX. Bye bye meal ticket huh. Most girls especially if you’re not in entertainment world probably wouldn’t want to let him go. How can a smart guy like Kim Hyun Joong fall for such a girl…shish girls are smarter then guys, that’s true fact from the New England journal of health. Some girls can act like an angel but watch out guys if you break up with them, they may want to hurt you in any form possible to destroy or damage you.
What about those pics and text messages on Dispatch news outlet? Any photo can be photo shop and text can be out of content. And who said it was from Kim Hyun Joong, only her Ex. What about waiting two week to see a Dr…why would wait two week let along two days? Is there any medical Dr saying miss A was beat up repeated? What about Kim Hyun Joong bruised arm hands and scratch mark? It take two tango, he might had to push her away from hitting him. Doesn’t he have a right to defend himself or no just let a girl go crazy and slap you or bite you yeah because you’re a guy it’s normal. No that’s normal for a girl or a guy.

In conclusion, I don’t agreed domestic violence at all what so ever in any forms period, it’s wrong by a man or a woman. If Kim Hyun Joong is found guilty of abused, he will be trial in a court of law not in the media world where most have already found him guilty. Didn’t God say those who has not sin throw the first stone? Is Kim Hyun Joong perfect of course not, no one is. We have one side leaking stuff to trash news on line. IN Korea that’s what most people call Dispatch. And we have one side who’s only talking with the police. Whatever the outcome is fans must believe have faith and if he did make a mistake we as his fans need to able to forgive too. And if the girl were lying to get money or to trash his name, all those bias one sided reporting should feel like dirt. Those fans who love Kim Hyun Joong will always love and support him and those who have always hated him will still hate him. No skin off my back (Talk to the hand)’


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19 responses

  1. Love what you said,and I`m proud to say I`m his fan now and forever no matter what they say or the result of this storm.And if I can I will protect him and watch his back with all I have

    Sunday, September 14, 2014 at 4:41 am

  2. Patricia Rios

    Many people deem it that it is true, but few will continue to support it and above all continue watching it as a flawless, right and above all unique person… for the from the day the met my support, love, and my faith

    Thursday, September 11, 2014 at 11:01 pm

  3. Allie

    I’ve come to the conclusion that the news media, social media and those so called kpop sites, for want of a better way to say it, are the work of the devil! The news media lies and twitter, Facebook, and those so called kpop sites have spread those lies. The “news” headlines will say something to draw readers in but there is nothing in the article that goes with that headline or as Jackie has stated they will translate what was actually stated in a way to make it fit their agenda of destroying Hyun Joong. The people hiding behind their computers and acting ‘holier than thou’ are the worst. Have they never made a mistake? Are they that perfect? They claim to be so against any abuse, yet those same people are abusing Hyun Joong and his fans with words and are even wanting horrible things to be done to him! Hypocrites!!

    Just as Jackie said, they were not there so how can they know the girl is telling the truth. Why do they think Hyun Joong is lying and she isn’t? I have read so many different versions of what this girl has claimed and of Keyeast and Hyun Joong’s statements that if they didn’t have Hyun Joong’s name in there I would think they were talking about completely different people! I have read that she was beaten so bad that she was in the hospital for two weeks, other versions have said six weeks, and other versions say both. Then other versions say she claimed she wasn’t in the hospital at all but that it took her 2 weeks to recover, other versions say she claimed 6 weeks, and once again others say both. I have read that he abused her for two years and other versions have claimed two months. I have read that they were together for 2 years and other versions say 2 months. I have read that he told the police he hit her once, that he told the police he didn’t know how many times he hit her, and other versions have said that he told the police he didn’t know how many times he hit and kicked her. She claims he broke her rib from a fight and the haters say that it has to be true because you can’t get a broken rib from playing and horsing around. Sorry to burst their bubbles but you can break a rib from coughing. I know someone it happened to. Freak things happen all the time. So what about the “evidence”? Well sorry to once again burst the haters bubbles but in this day and age pictures and texts are not solid proof. Too easy to fake them, especially when it’s so long after the abuse supposedly happened. Hospital records only prove that someone was treated for an injury, not how it happened or who caused it. Anyone can make claims on how an injury occurred but that doesn’t mean it’s true. At this point even the police have said she has no proof, except her word that he did what she claims. So what does that say about the pics, texts, and hospital records? I guess we will just have to wait and see if she can prove their validity. Even witnesses can lie. Video would be the only sure and solid proof and I haven’t seen any videos.

    Hyun Joong has clearly stated that they have known each other for 2 years but did not date but for a few months. He has clearly stated he did not break her rib while they were fighting and that the only thing he can think of that caused the injury was when they were playing and horsing around. He says that they did not even know she broke her rib because the day after shes says it happened they had gone out with friends and no one even knew she was hurt. He says he didn’t hit her. He clearly stated that when he broke up with her they got into a heated, emotional argument where both of them were pushing and shoving each other.

    Call me delusional, sick, stupid, blind, or whatever rude and condescending name you want but at this time I choose to believe Hyun Joong. Why? Because he hasn’t ever lied in all the years I have been his fan. He won’t lie even when he knows what he says is going to bring criticism from netizens and the media. He won’t even lie when he says something he knows will bring wrath from the SS501 fans down on his head! He says it’s pointless to lie when the truth will always come out anyway. He takes the consequences from what he says and moves on. He did not deny they got into a fight and he seems to want to take responsibility for that but he is not going to take responsibility for something he did not do. Why would he? As of now he is only guilty of what he has admitted to in his statement.

    I guess what it all comes down to is this; no matter who we believe is telling the truth we all have to hope and pray that at the end of all this justice is served to the one who deserves it, whomever that may be.

    Thursday, September 11, 2014 at 4:30 am

    • Right on girl! Hear hee hear hee! 😊

      Thursday, September 11, 2014 at 11:34 am

  4. Bella

    Well written . I can’t agree more. Thank you so much.

    After the incident I admire HJ even more. He handles the situation with grace and responsibility. I’m proud to be his fan.

    Shame on those irresponsible media out there.
    For me they are the real criminal and very harmful to society.

    Thursday, September 11, 2014 at 12:21 am

  5. nada

    Thank you soooo much helped me to erupt my anger that I really can’t hold back.We love this guy…but we are not blind.We knew how he grow up and what kind of family he has.thanks sis.may god help him and bless you.Waiting for your update.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 5:44 pm

  6. Kel

    You are totally, I can’t agree any more! Very well written article, you put my thoughts in words.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 1:26 pm

  7. Thank you everyone for sharing your thoughts. The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do. I really appreciate how khj is walking with grace in this challenging situation. I am not what happened to me. I am what i choose to become. (CJ.) Proud to support KHJ and i will try to trust his journey. Sometimes i feel like a lioness wanting to protect my cub. Yes i know KHJ has a tenacious spirit and will grow from this.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 12:47 pm

  8. elen

    Amazing article beautiful and so accurate. ..i read it all in one breath. Thank you very much for sharing this with all of us. ..

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 12:34 pm

  9. Renee

    Excellent! Thank you.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 8:42 am

  10. FanJoong

    Love you, Jakie.
    Well said …

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 8:14 am

  11. isabel villa

    i totally agree with you, because he is the only solo artist who reach the highest level in and outside korea, they are using the issue to destroy him, i think his agency must have to protect him in any false accusation regarding his work….

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 7:55 am

  12. SamY

    Jackie thank you for this wonderful words ! u’r such a good person and also honest as our 4D.
    I support KIHJ in whatever he does ❤ If he is guilty, he should then pay for it and for me I will forgive him and forget this mess 🙂 NOBODY IS PERFECT!!
    And if it's all the girl doing !!(and I am not going to throw any hateful words….), but she deserve to be punished because she is ruining someone's life and in a really bad way! I mean whatever are her reasons this is just too much to believe !! Now so many people think of Hyun joong OPPa as a monster or other words that i've read (don't wanna say them)!! beside who is perfect in this world !! everyone has his own mistakes and sins!!
    Kim hyun joong oppa fightin

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 6:53 am

  13. Dear, Jackie Kim: You and the ladies on this site are doing some excellent posting. I have only known about Kim Hyun Joong for about a year. (Which,oddly enough, happened as a result of studying about the Korean educational system!…or hopefully it was just that God knew I needed to know about his life). Anyway, I have been praying for him as time and situations come about. I realize how talented and delightful he is in so many regards. However, I can’t do Kim Hyun Joong any good as an entertainment fan. My romantic heart belongs only to my husband. But my Mother’s heart kicked in strong in regard to this young man’s life. (Go explain that? I can’t explain that.) And that is all I want to be, is a Mother on the other side of the world who cares about him, and who, along with many others, pray for his life and heart and future, not as a superstar but as a man in need of a Mighty God to touch his life and direct his steps. Thank you, Dear for not being silent……Love Beth,

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 5:28 am

  14. I’m not too worried about his money issue his world tour is a big success despite the hate and rumors that’s coming or leaking out from garbage outlets! . He’s Facebook has more following n his you tube too so money is not a issue it’s the fact he has so much wealth that attached the wrong kinds of girls. I said my peace if ppl don’t like it Oh well, like I care what others say especially when I don’t know them. It’s a free country here so let me have my say. As a fan from the start to present it’s my right to say what I feel and what’s it’s like in my own country. I got tired of the crap that’s not confirm nor the BS reporting going on.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 2:45 am

  15. Kay

    Well, that was a good comment on the situation. However, ever hear of there is always a first time? I am a KHJ fan, but, as you said, we weren’t at these quarrels so we don’t know what happened for real—he said, she said. But the fact of the matter is, our boy is a lot stronger. If alcohol was involved, then things could have escalated the situation. I don’t know what the law says regarding a woman striking the first blow and continuing the aggression, and the man’s position in defending himself. I’m hoping there is proof that the ex has no legal grounds, or at the very worst, KHJ pays a fine with no criminal record. One thing is for sure, KHJ’s reputation has suffered. Time will tell if his endorsements, and other income sources will be suffer irretrievably. All the fans can do is hope justice will be fair to KHJ, and that this is a wake up call for him to take stock of his life.

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 12:54 am

  16. Noya

    Jackie dear, love you for this, thank you. What a war with those antis who anyhow will find fault if KHj will hold his fork or chopsticks on other hand….so who they are kidding here to be so biased?! Those people don’t see beyond their noses and read only trash media, so whast do you expect?!
    You are right takes two to tango!!
    That little nobody who wanted her three minutes of fame got it with all her lies, I hope they will divulge her name and her face, because she most probably don’t even get it at how much pain and hurt and destruction done (not only to Hj and his family but to all of us his fans as well) only for her vindictive nature, she doesn’t know how to lose for sure. Hope Hj will make a better choice of gf next time!:)

    Wednesday, September 10, 2014 at 12:22 am

  17. Shain Park did it! Those fans who know him for almost 10 years don’t know the “Real” him..but the antis,haters and media know him intimately.. they know he is not saying the truth..and of course,they know HER and know that HER words are the Utter truth!WOW! Is that is not laughable ??He says they fought ,and they translate it to “he admitted that he beat her”..The police say they have not found evidence to prove HER accusations, and “they” can not see nor hear that fact!? The media take an unholy pleasure in blackening a well known celebrity’s name …of course..they are making money while doing this “good deed”! Those antis and haters love the news..(of course, they are spotlessly clean and have never sinned!) they always hated him and were eagerly waiting for a chink in the armour ..

    Tuesday, September 9, 2014 at 11:11 pm

  18. TheMsBabyG

    Sad .. some said they only need to confirm that HJ did hit the girl, even once was enough. And yes Hj admitted to a fight .. they don’t need a reason as to why, as to defend, as to extreme provocation. They feel with the admission its justify them to call him a woman abuser, a monster. Its justify them to say that the girl is a victim and her other accusations are true. They want every woman in this world and all his fans, to hate him and curse him .. leave him .. they want him to crumble down … yeah maybe they will stop only when he had been stoned dead, Yet they sympathize his Omma his family .. is that the right way? By shouting here and there that her son is a monster a woman abuser even before the court the expert say that? Was it not enough with the public judgement and humiliation they have had thus far?

    Tuesday, September 9, 2014 at 10:44 pm

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