Dedicated to SS501 4D Leader Kim Hyun Joong

Kim Hyun Joong accused of assault by his Ex, however trying to untangle their emotion to find a solution.


Source : Translated by Jackie Kim
http://star.mt.co.kr/view/stview.php?no=2014091207555934032&type=1&outlink=1

Kim Hyun Joong accused of assault by his Ex, however trying to untangle their emotion to find a solution.

Singer and actor Kim Hyun Joong accused of assault by his Ex is in the final stages of settlement among both parties.

On the 12 of Sept., Kim Hyun Joong lawyer tells Stars news, even through the two sides have difference of views; also stated Kim Hyun Joong to drag this out nor go to war over words either. It was just not faith to be together.

As a couple, their break up was filled with raw emotions as it was hard on both sides.

In order to help ease the pain he may have cause her, he’s doing what he can to help her as they had once dated and she love him. In addition, they are working out a mutual settlement. The lawyer said.

Upon receipt of a complaint, Seoul, Songpa police station representative, said “even though Kim Hyun Joong first visit were short and his answer were short, but as of now there is no plan to investigate more nor call both parties for further questions” Next week they will decide whether it should be further investigated,” he said.

Kim Hyun Joong’s ex-girlfriend, known as Mr A, Sept. 20, and said Kim Hyun Joong from last May through July, for a total of 4 occasions to have been assaulted by an inveterate Songpa police station had received the complaint.

Last week Kim Hyun Joong came to the police station and told his side and said their were a mutual fight struggle together but denied anything to his Ex girlfriend to the displaced rib fractures.

폭행 혐의 피소 김현중, 화해하나..”감정 풀어가는 中”

가수 겸 배우 김현중의 폭행 혐의 고소 사건이 상호간의 화해로 마무리될 가능성이 제기되고 있다.
12일 김현중의 사건을 담당하는 변호사는 스타뉴스에 “서로가 입장이 다르긴 하지만 옳고 그름을 두고 다투길 바라지 않는다”며 “서로 2년여 알아왔고, 연인 사이였던만큼 헤어지면서 갈등을 빚었던 부분이다. 이런 부분을 풀기 위해 김현중 씨도 노력하고 있다”고 밝혔다.

이어 “한때 사랑했던 연인의 마음을 풀어주기 위한 사과문도 다듬는 중이다. 감정과 상처를 푸는데 집중하고 있다”고 말했다.

고소장을 접수한 서울 송파경찰서 담당자 역시 “첫 소환조사 결과 김현중과 고소인의 주장이 엇갈리긴 하지만 현재로서는 당장 두 사람을 소환조사할 계획은 없다”며 “다음 주쯤은 돼야 소환조사 여부를 결정할 수 있을 것”이라고 전했다.

김현중의 전 여자친구로 알려진 A씨는 지난달 20일 김현중에게 지난 5월부터 7월까지 총 4차례에 걸쳐 상습적으로 폭행을 당했다고 송파경찰서에 고소장을 접수했다.

이에 김현중은 지난 2일 경찰서에 출두해 입장을 밝혔다. 당시 김현중을 조사했던 경찰에 따르면 김현중은 총 4건의 폭행 혐의 중 전치2주에 해당하는 1건만 “가벼운 몸싸움이었다”고 인정했다. 2건의 폭행과 전치 6주에 해당하는 갈비뼈 골절은 인정하지 않았다.

21 responses

  1. soo

    Staying truthful and not apologizing for things not done is the principle to stay happy. I hope KHJ can be happy and when recall about this crisis years later, he will not regret for any actions taken.
    To Miss A, she might be looking for appreciation, respect and much more time to heal. Apologies for inexistence actions is not a form of respect and sincerity. Only standing firm to actual happening will help her to heal better in long run.

    Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 1:33 am

    • Bella

      Dear Soo,,

      I’m 100 % agree with you.
      Never apologize.

      For A she will feel better only when she could accept herself and accept the reality.
      Asking HJ to apologize for the false accusation can not gain her self respect .what so ever.

      The way she can gain her self respect is to do the things she asks HJ to do. ..admit that she is lying , Apologize and reflect otherwise lying will become her habitual behavior.

      Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 4:38 am

  2. atiq

    I will never leave him. I think I understand why he doing all this and I know he has no other choice. Just look at what had happened to Beijing concert, they cancelled it even they know the case still hang and not yet decided wether HJ convicted or not. Damage has been done by his girl that he once loves her. He can’t wait any moment for other opportunity been destroyed. He might has other projects he has signed and he shouldn’t lose them by this nonsense thing. If its true bcos of he wanted to ease the girl he choose to settlement, then be it. We donno maybe this girl kind of mental after has been dumped by him that make him worry of her. But i agree to ask her make an open apology regarding her ridicolous accusation. And also that Dispacth must also apologise to HJ and his fans. I hope all this not true but if its true, may God always assist Hj to find his peace.

    Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 1:21 am

  3. This was painful to translated for me. I had to bite my lips again. Like I said in my opinion editorial which was unbiased n truthful. The Korean media n some Korean people and also in other Asian counties are very quick to judge without knowing all the fact. And the media has been ruthless n careless on their reporting duties. It’s like seek n destroy like vampires out for blood. It make angry n sad at my own country media coverage of enjoying another person in a personal pain 😢😢😢 And Miss A talk about her love for Kim Hyun Joong, yeah right. If that’s call loving some one….dag she’s a nut case in my opinion! You don’t claim to love some one by destroying him or her in any way possible, which I’m going to write another editorial about. As fans we must stick together in good times n bad times. If you leave now when Kim Hyun Joong need us the most well then you wasn’t a true fan then. Don’t let the door hit your butt!

    Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 1:00 am

  4. FanJoong

    My heart bleeds and is painful due to his situation.
    She is the big damage to him.
    It’s not fair for his fans like me.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 11:03 pm

  5. Bella

    I would feel very sad if HJ will do settlement for her favor even though he has a kind heart but he should know what she did to him is not love. She does not only aim to destroy his career and his life but also hurt everyone who love him too,

    She wants the whole world to condemn him and hate him just to full-fill her emotion . Look at the way she plays with the media since in the beginning till now she is really a very dangerous person to be with. The thing that hurts me the most is she and the media try to discredit justice system by consistency manipulating the public opinion.

    She should be the one that make an official apology not him. He or KE should sue her for the damage she caused. I love his kind heart I know he wants to help her to ease the pain but he should never let her go with her lie . She is lying to the public not only to him.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:41 pm

  6. Iwas expected that khj is simple and pure hearted he will overcome every thing but that’s unfair she must apologize for all the damages that caused by her I can’t believe that’s she loved him if she really no matter what she will aim for his happiness but that’s not love that sick called avery bad jealousy

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:18 pm

    • Bella

      I think the same. It’s too hurtful to see somebody who intentionally damage a person’s life to set themselves free without quilt and no shame at all. I find it’s hard to accept. I truly think helping a person to ease with her pain is one thing but having her take responsibility for her wrong doing is another thing . These two things should not be combined. Please let set an example otherwise we will see a lot more of this kind .

      Friday, September 12, 2014 at 10:18 pm

  7. Malavika

    Gosh! So its finally gotten down to this! I respect Hyun Joong’s decision to settle it out of messy court . However, I also feel that if she’s getting so much money she should also give a public statement of apology to KHJ. If she can go public with the alleged assault, she can do this too! All my prayers are with Hyun Joong Oppa.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:09 pm

  8. aprilstarr

    I am also not a lawyer but even common sense tells us if she believes in law and wants that system to take care of her grievances then let its procedure ran its true course. Details of the case yet to be filed from day one shouldn’t have been released for public consumption. When she has filed her charges and the police notified the person of interest, it is him, the defendant (HJ) who request for so called evidences coming from the other side so he can respond appropriately. It is done by the legal authorities not media.

    There are assaults of different levels same way as killing (accidental,pre-meditated,self defense,etc). What I know is there is such a thing as non intentional and accidental acts may not be even called assault. In other words motivations and intent are important (re case of the South African athlete Pistorius who killed his GF was declared not guilty). It goes without saying the accuser must submit all evidences of her allegations fully documented and fully dated by certified medical examiners.

    If the plaintiff has already filed a complain to the police and the steps of investigation has started then she shouldn’t be doing forum shopping reportedly again (using media to swing the public attention to her side of the story). The plaintiff (the ex-GF) if she is serious in asking the law to punish her so called offender, then that is what she should be doing -adhere to the process of law.

    Of course we don’t really know if she asked for that huge amount of compensation for her alleged damages. In practice the parties can settle out of court, or wait till it becomes a full blown case and wait for the judge to award monetary compensation or asked them to settle, and other verdict. If they settle out of court,the case no longer proceeds.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:07 pm

    • Bella

      Dear Aprill,

      thank you so much for detail explanation. A is a quite something. I wonder what kind of friend A has? I hope HJ will not settle .

      HJ please Stay firm with the truth . The truth will make you proud for the rest of your life and you will never feel sorry . Don’t do thing that you will feel sorry years later. HJ I ‘m sorry to say that what A did is never love. She just did not get what she has expected. As a fan and as a person I would like to see justice in your case and could not witness more damage A cause you .

      Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 6:01 am

  9. Tina

    I don’t get it? is he going to settle? after all the damage she has done him with her uncontrolled emotions?? (and I’m using uncontrolled emotions to demonstrate that all she did was a childish act), he could be seen as someone who tried to shut her up and gave her money to shut up, I know he has a very kind heart but I’m really worried about him doing a settlement then he must ask her to apologize publicly for the media chaos she has caused, although I know he is not going to, he is very simple and pure hearted

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    • aprilstarr

      HJ can settle. Many people do that for may legit reasons with its pros and cons, or battle it out in court, or do counter charges and ask for compensation. It may turn ugly,expensive and time consuming but it means one is getting justice so be it.

      Many are asking for the timing of this alleged case. Hj is on his WT, planning for a comeback drama and will be reporting for duty for his MS soon. What a wet blanket !

      Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:20 pm

  10. Hola

    Yeah me too I hate Ms. A so much grrrr I want to strangle her and gosh Kim Hyun Joong should clear his name. I feel unhappy because I did a lot of research to prove that media is all wrong.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 8:23 pm

  11. i dont know what’s going to happen…but lets hope best..🙂

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 7:53 pm

  12. ChenchenZues

    its been a month since i have this discussion with my parents regarding with this issue..BECAUSE I KNEW THEY KNEW LAW!!.

    Here is what I found and take note this is what MY UNDERSTANDING! I am not lawyering here, i just want to share what’s in my mind!

    1st. “PROOF OF BURDEN’ – a victim should show physical and hard evidence to prove of multiple physical injury (note i don’t use assault, coz they have different meaning.) Please take note that ‘MEDICAL CERTIFICATE’ SHOULD BE SIGNED BY A MEDICAL EXPERT DESIGNATED BY THE GOVERNMENT “MEDICO LEGAL’.. NOT FROM A PRIVATE HOSPITAL also it should be same date of the incident.( it will be too hard for the victim to prove the physical assault if there are discrepancy between the date of med.cert and the date of incident..) All evidence should be intact and a sworn statement signed by HER and her lawyer.(i haven’t seen any sworn statement !!). And the only EVIDENCE SHE HAD IS ONLY HER STORY!!! Which I am pretty sure it wont stand in a court!

    2ND. Physical Injury should be charge or report in the police office right away or right after the incident. (here in the Phil. we call it blotter). Take Note in between the date of incident and the date of report to the police took almost two weeks (not sure the exact timeline), there are a lot of things might happen in between that days. I think the police officer knew about this. that is why they call for further investigation and not filed a case right away.

    3rd. SUBSTANTIAL EVIDENCE AND PROBABLE CAUSE – As what I’ve said in my tweet, Police would file a case right away, if the evidence is substantial and there is a probable cause of victims’ claim. The subpoena/ arrest warrant for questioning/interrogation right away!!. HJ been in and out of SK due to his world tour during this hiatus, i haven’t seen any warrant, only invitation to hear his side.

    4th. SHE USE WORD ARBITRARY.. It is use to “set things out between them”,here the victim can “demand anything” he/she want to avoid all legal procedures. (specially when the case is not filed yet), For Mediation and LITIGATION it use use for “COURT SETTLEMENT” (again it only use when case is already filed and the judges will informed them if they want to settle things between them before the judge released its decision .)

    5th. IF I were a victim, I wont demand anything or ask anything.. If I want justice for what I have been through I let the LAW punish him for what he has done.. AND I WONT USE ARBITRARY to compensate for what I need.. THAT’ S HOW THE REAL VICTIMS THINKS!.

    6th As long as there is no case filed. HJ is innocent, He doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment. Don’t ever slander his name of even all his work. The terrorist had given the day in court and presumed innocent. BUT HJ ALREADY BEEN CONVICTED IN MEDIA.. this is all unfair to him!..

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    • cagome

      THANK YOU FOR YOUR EXPLANATION.IS OBVIOUS THAT MISS A IS A BAD PERSON.

      Friday, September 12, 2014 at 7:48 pm

    • love4khj

      I wish haters could understand this . Hats off to you i appreatiate yuor hard work very much

      Friday, September 12, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    • Bella

      Dear Chenchenzues,

      Thank you so much for your explanation. It ‘s really knowledgeable which help me to understand the situation clearer .

      Can I have a permission from you to post this comment at Lazerkim’s blog with your credit ? Hj’s fans there will appreciate this kind of information and understand the whole situation better. Thank you very much.

      Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 1:13 am

    • Hello Chen! oh thanks for this enlightenment. I would just like to know is it possible that hj can go after ms. A like a counter charge and the media particularly Despatch?
      I reallt think something has to be done to this people for what they did to hj.
      Thank you’ve been very helpful.
      Chen the incident happened in May 30 after midnight and was reported at the police on Aug 20 if im not mistaken. so thats almost after 3 months. There were conflicts w the dates that ms a said last days of july but hj was already on WT. So i never believed her statements.

      Ellen thanks for the space. Jackie thanks for the translation God bless..

      Saturday, September 13, 2014 at 2:42 am

  13. Cagome

    I AM VERY SAD BCS OUR ONLY ONE MUST LIVE THIS NEGATIVE EMOTION BCS SOMEONE WHO TELL WAS HIS “GIRLFRIEND”.AND THIS MEANS “LOVED” HIM.IF FROM FRIEND RECEIVE THIS KIND OF “SURPRISES”,WHEN HE TRUST IN THAT PERSON AND CARE FOR HER,WHAT TO SAY ABOUT ENEMIES?SHAME,MISS A!!!I HATE YOU,MISS A,AND I AM SURE LORD WILL PAY YOU FOR THIS KIND OF “SURPRISES”.

    Friday, September 12, 2014 at 6:00 pm

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