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[News]Kim Hyun Joong’s parents speak out through an interview on Choi’s pregnancy, hospital visits, and their son’s thoughts


source: http://www.allkpop.com/article/2015/02/kim-hyun-joongs-parents-speak-out-through-an-interview-on-chois-pregnancy-hospital-visits-and-their-sons-thoughts

There have been abundant reports lately regarding Kim Hyun Joong and his ex-girlfriend these days, specifically on the topic of Miss Choi‘s pregnancy and hospital visits that Kim Hyun Joong’s side has been supposedly trying to arrange. The two have been releasing conflicting statements with Kim Hyun Joong’s side insisting that Miss Choi is not cooperating nor showing up to promised appointments at the hospital, while Miss Choi’s side says they never agreed to a hospital visit.

Following Miss Choi’s interview with Dispatch, competing media outlet The Fact has released an interview with Kim Hyun Joong’s parents, who expressed their frustration at the situation as all they want is to check on the baby’s condition.

SEE ALSO: Kim Hyun Joong threatened his ex-girlfriend via text?

His mom began the interview, saying, “Honestly, I’m embarrassed that I am here now. I don’t even know if this is something to hold an interview about. This is a matter between my son and Miss Choi, and a matter between two families. But despite this, the reason that we decided to hold this interview is because there is something we want to say. We just want to receive confirmation regarding the baby.”

“Of course I believe that Miss Choi is pregnant, I’m also not suspecting the claim that the child is our son’s. But it’s hard to think to myself ‘Ah, this is our grandchild’ by just looking at a few ultrasound pictures with no names or anything on them received through a mobile messenger app. What parent out there would be able to easily accept it when someone just says ‘This is your baby’ with ultrasound pictures with no name or info attached to them. All we’ve been asking from the beginning is for us to be able to confirm by going to the hospital together.”

Kim Hyun Joong’s parents also then went onto address these documents that Miss Choi supposedly had to prove that she is pregnant with their son’s baby. According to them, they met with Miss Choi’s parents on January 14. Miss Choi’s parents had an envelope with documents inside, but according to Kim Hyun Joong’s parents, they were unable to confirm what was inside the envelope because Miss Choi’s parents later left and took the envelope with them. They say they didn’t really think to open the envelope right on the spot because they did not suspect Miss Choi to be lying anyway and thought they could open it later.

Kim Hyun Joong’s father also said that the text messages Miss Choi had released through Dispatch had been cut and pasted in a way that made it look more favorable to her case. He revealed that he also has all the messages and is willing to reveal them, but that he wanted to receive Choi’s consent first.

The father also went on to reveal that he is especially pressing for a hospital visit because he had heard a rumor that Choi drank alcohol after she became pregnant. He said he beat around the bush by telling Choi, “Oh I’m just worried that you might have eaten whatever without knowing you were pregnant”. But Choi told him she did not eat without thinking. Kim Hyung Joong’s father said, ‘I wanted to ask her ‘did you drink’, but because it wasn’t something I had actually witnessed, I had a hard time actually asking her that since if I asked her that then I’d have to tell her the name of the person who told me. That would cause this issue to get bigger and I thought she’d also be hurt by it, and I didn’t want to hurt someone who could potentially become a part of my family. But I think when I had mentioned to her ‘let’s check before it’s too late’, she misunderstood it as me implying ‘let’s go abort this baby before it gets bigger’. However, I have no such intentions at all. I actually only want to protect the baby.”

Kim Hyun Joong’s father also went on to clarify the matter of the scheduled hospital visit. If you remember, Miss Choi had revealed that she was afraid to go receive a checkup with them as they had insisted on a specific hospital with a specific doctor. Choi believed that because of their insistence on the certain hospital and doctor, she was scared something had been arranged and that something might happen to her baby if she attended this hospital visit. However, Kim Hyun Joong’s father presented a very different side of the story.

He said, “When I met with Miss Choi and learned about the pregnancy was January 6, Hyun Joong’s mom had surgery for neck disc on January 8, so I didn’t tell my wife and met with Miss Choi alone. She said she was pregnant so I said since you’re going to have to take care of your health as well as the baby’s health, let’s go get checked out at a big hospital. I also mentioned this to her parents and her parents agreed. Afterwards, I called Miss Choi as I was about to schedule an appointment at a hospital that’s well known and has favorable reviews. However, she said she didn’t want a male doctor. I told her that there was a doctor here who is well respected so let’s just go see him first and then afterwards we can change to a female doctor. Miss Choi then said herself that she knew of a famous female doctor at the same hospital, so to schedule an appointment with that doctor instead. So I agreed and scheduled an appointment with the female doctor.”

He revealed that despite all this, Miss Choi never showed up as promised on January 17th. He had told his wife about all this after she finished her surgery and his wife had said she’ll attend the check up with Miss Choi. So even though she was not even fully recovered and had to rely on a wheelchair to move about, she and her husband waited for Miss Choi to show up at the hospital, but Miss Choi failed to show up. In an emotional and upset state, Kim Hyun Joong’s father revealed that he had texted Choi, “You really can’t be doing things like this.”

They then rescheduled the appointment for February 2. However, on January 31, Choi texted them saying that she won’t attend if Kim Hyun Joong does not come. Although they tried to persuade her to attend, she refused, and they had to once again reschedule the appointment for February 25, since Kim Hyun Joong would have returned from his overseas schedule by then.

However Miss Choi contacted them again on February 24 saying she didn’t want to visit that hospital anymore, so they agreed to go to another hospital that she wanted on the same day. However, she never showed that day, and this day was the day that Miss Choi had her interview with Dispatch.

Kim Hyun Joong’s parents then asked her to just meet them at the previously scheduled hospital on the 25th. When they texted her, “We are on our way, so please come”, Miss Choi only responded, “Stop media playing. The truth will always be revealed.” Kim Hyun Joong’s father commented during the interview, “What media play have we done? Isn’t it her who revealed that she was pregnant and mentioned taking responsibility and such to the media in the first place?”

Kim Hyun Joong’s mother added, “We’re frustrated. I don’t know how to express these emotions in words. We haven’t even begun the talk about marriage yet, but she’s going on saying she’s not going to marry our son and that she’s going to take responsibility for the baby. I just want to die. Why is she making this issue into something like this when it’s a matter that should be solved between the two families. Why does she do all this but not discuss with us the things that should be talked about.”

The singer’s parents also revealed that they tried calling the hospital that Miss Choi has been visiting, but the hospital told them that they can only release information if Miss Choi comes with them. As if to address Miss Choi, Kim Hyun Joong’s mother remarked at this point in the interview, “Please just go with us to the hospital so that we can check on the condition, and let’s solve family matters between the families.”

As for the topic of marriage, Kim Hyun Joong’s father stated, “We want to raise the baby even if the two don’t get married. However, since the mother is the one with the custody, we will follow Miss Choi’s decision. However, no matter who it is that takes responsibility for the child, we must confirm the condition of the baby and the mother. What becomes of us when she says she’ll take responsibility and won’t even visit the hospital with us. We want to go to the hospital with her and learn what she plans to do from now on. We want to hear this not through the media, but through discussion among ourselves to resolve the problem. If it all goes well, then I could potentially become her father-in-law. So it’s a shame that things keep going this direction. I think marriage is something that the two should work out. If they say they want to live together then I will not oppose it. What else can I do if they were to say they want to keep living on together because they love each other even despite all the pain they’ve received.”

As for what their son is up to these days and how he’s doing, his father commented, “He’s having a tough time. He can’t even step a foot outside of the house.” His mom added,“Even today, I came after having cried for an hour. Those with children should be able to understand how pained I am. I don’t know how to express it in words. Is it only considered murder if one actually kills a person. I think putting a family through this kind of pain is also murder. Honestly, this the pitiful state of heart I’m in. If I’m feeling like this, how do you think he [Kim Hyun Joong] feels.”

 

When asked what Kim Hyun Joong’s thoughts are on the situation, his father revealed,“Our son said that if it’s true that she is pregnant, then that the baby is probably his. If he had been unsure about it then we might have suspected Miss Choi, but since he’s the one saying that, we of course believe [she’s pregnant]. He said he’ll take responsibility so we respected his decision. I told him, ‘If all this happens and you don’t get married then you’re going to be a bachelor with a kid.’ Hyun Joong told me he is ready to accept that as well. I think that whatever decision is made should be made for the baby, and I told my son the same.”

The Fact also organized a timeline of the order of events, which we have translated for you below.

2014

8.20 – Kim Hyun Joong accused of assaulting ex-girlfriend from May to July

8.22 – Kim Hyun Joong’s assault case becomes revealed to the world. Key East Entertainment attempts to figure out what’s happening

8.23 – Key East releases official statement saying that there was a physical and verbal fight, there was no repeated assault

8.24 – Kim Hyun Joong carries out world tour in Thailand, delays enlistment

9.2 – 1st round of investigation, Kim Hyun Joong denies repeated assault

9.15 – 2nd round of investigation, Kim Hyun Joong meets with Choi and apologizes and reconciles. Reveals they dated for 2 years and apologizes to fans on his homepage

9.17 – Choi’s lawyer asks to withdraw lawsuit

November – Kim Hyun Joong and Choi get back together

December – Kim Hyun Joong and Choi break up

2015

1.3 – Choi realizes she’s pregnant

1.5 – Choi notified Kim Hyun Joong about pregnancy

1.6 – Kim Hyun Joong’s father meets with Choi, receives 3 ultrasound pictures

1.17 – Kim Hyun Joong’s parents show up for the hospital appointment, Miss Choi can’t be reached

1.19 – Kim Hyun Joong fined 5 million KRW for the one acknowledged case of bodily harm

2.2 – Kim Hyun Joong’s parents reschedule hospital appointment with the female doctor Choi requested for to this date. However, this appointment is rescheduled again for the 25th due to Choi’s refusal

2.12 – Kim Hyun Joong’s parents receive request to meet from Choi’s parents

2.14 – Kim Hyun Joong’s parents and Choi’s parents meet, agree to Choi’s hospital visit on the 25th

2.22 – ‘Woman Sense’ releases report on Kim Hyun Joong and Choi’s reconciliation and pregnancy. Kim Hyun Joong’s side asks to meet with Choi’s side again

2.23 – Kim Hyun Joong denies rumors of getting back together, but says he’ll take responsibility if pregnancy is true. Choi’s side says they have plenty of documents to prove her pregnancy. Choi and Kim Hyung Joong’s parents get in touch, agree to meet at another hospital that Choi wants on 24th

2.24 – Choi doesn’t show up while Kim Hyun Joong’s parents wait. Choi meets with media

2.25 – Kim Hyun Joong’s parents wait at the first hospital for the appointment they scheduled previously with the female doctor of Choi’s choosing, Choi doesn’t show. Dispatch releases interview with Choi

15 responses

  1. Noya

    I feel for this family passing through soo much pain due to this trash of excuse of a woman Bitch Choi….! Came out of your hidding and for once in your sorry life say the truth and stop tormenting people, low trash.
    Pardon my language…but enough is enough of this Circus that this psychopatic bitch is doing! and dragging all people in it, incosistent in her lies haven’t a clue on maths now she is pregnant in 10-11 wks now she is 4 months…geez, your math stinks as your lies and confusion…go to hell and stay there. I belive even in hell you are not wanted!

    Sunday, March 1, 2015 at 5:14 am

  2. Tina

    I’m praying always that the pregnancy is not true at all if she is not showing up and lied before about the assault case why would I believe her now?? just a question that pregnancy needs to be confirmed and the baby needs to be confirmed HJ’s baby as well.

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 11:37 pm

  3. FanJoong

    I admire his parents.
    How can they be in the situation?

    Be strong, Hyun Joong and your family.
    People understand you.

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 10:39 pm

  4. CAGOME

    DEAR OUR ONLY ONE,PLEASE BE STRONG AND HAVE GOOD CARE WITH YOUR HEALTHY,WITH YOUR FAMILY HEALTHY,PLEASE SEND GOOD FOOD TO YOUR LADY BCS SHE TELL SHE IS HUNGRY AND SHE LOST WEIGHT,TAKE TIME FOR YOU TO BE WELL AND HAPPY.WE WILL SUPPORT YOU ALL TIME,AND IF SHE WANT TO MAKE A MOVIE WITH YOUR LIFE AND PRIVACY,NOT BE STRESSED.YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL MAN IN ANY SITUATIONS,WE LOVE TO SEE YOU ALL TIME.WHAT IS IF WE WILL SEE YOU SLEEPING NEAR SHE?WILL THINK HOW BEAUTIFUL IS TO BE IN HER SHOES,TO SLEEP AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE WITH OUR ONLY ONE.:)YOU ARE SENSIBLE AND BEAUTIFUL MAN AND ALWAYS MAN OF HONOR AND EVEN IF YOUR LIFE CAN HAVE TOO MUCH TRANSPARENCY,WE ALWAYS LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU.

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 7:13 pm

  5. CAGOME

    I THINK IS GOOD IDEA IF THEY GO TO HOSPITAL TOGETHER TO TAKE ALL MOMENTS ON FILM,TO SHOW TO WORLD WHAT IS TRUE,BCS WORDS CAN BE TRICKED.I THINK IS NOT VERY BAD IDEA A LITTLE REALITY SHOW WITH THEIR CONCLUSIONS WITH TRUE EMOTIONS.MAYBE SHE THIS WANT WHO KNOW?

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 7:03 pm

    • CAGOME

      WHY NOT TO DO MOVIE WITH HIS LIFE?IF SHE CAN MAKE MONEY WITH THIS PRIVACY,WHY NOT BE GOOD SIDE OF THEIR PRIVACY,TO STOP TRASH MEDIA TO BE INVOLVED.

      Friday, February 27, 2015 at 7:08 pm

  6. CAGOME

    I NOT KNOW IS GOOD OR NOT TO MARRY WITH THAT PERSON BCS IF SHE NOT HAVE PRIVACY BEFORE ,WHAT SHE WILL DO IN FUTURE?WILL SELL THEIR LIFE LIKE COUPLE TO MEDIA?OUR ONLY ONE IS OVERWHELMED BY THIS HARASSMENT.IS NORMAL TO BE.BUT HE MUST KNOW PEOPLE UNDERSTAND HIM AND LOVE HIM.EVEN SHE WILL TELL TO MEDIA HOW MANY TIME HE WAS WITH SHE,HOW MANY KIDS HE MAKE WITH SHE AND HOW MANY PRIVATE MESSAGES HE SEND TO HER,WE WILL LOVE HIM AND WILL ENJOY WITH HIM ,EVEN HIS PRIVACY IF HIS DESTINY IS TO BE SO TRANSPARENT WITH HIS LIFE.MAYBE IS MORE GOOD IDEA TO MAKE A REALITY SHOW,TO FILM EVERY DAY,IN THIS WAY MAYBE THAT SHE WILL BE SATISFIED.I AM SURE WILL HAVE A LOT SUCCESS THIS REALITY SHOW BCS REALLY MANY GIRLS WANT TO BE IN HIS BED…:)

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 7:00 pm

  7. CAGOME

    WILL BE VERY GOOD IF OUR ONLY ONE HAVE A TEAM WITH LAWYER AND PSYCHOLOGIST TO GIVE HIM ADVICE AND TO TAKE A GOOD STRATEGY FOR MANAGE THIS STORY.

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 6:54 pm

  8. Sara

    I am wonder, is she really pereganat by KHJ if yes why does she tricks and don’t show up? its very strange. what is her plan and trap this time? how such girl can be loved?

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    • CAGOME

      I WONDER TOO.SHE ALREADY TOLD TO KIM HYUN JOONG AND HIS FAMILY HER NEWS,THEY ARE OPEN TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES,HOW IS NORMAL TO BE.I NOT UNDERSTAND WHY SHE GO TO MEDIA,WHAT IS THAT PRESSURE WITH LAWYERS AND WHY SHE NOT GO WITH KIM HYUN JOONG,WITH HER AND HIS FAMILY TO MAKE WHAT IS NORMAL TO DO A PREGNANT WOMAN FOR SAKE OF BABY.IF SHE WANT TO REMAIN SECRET ,SHE MUST TO DISCUS WITH FAMILY,NOT WITH MEDIA.I WONDER WHAT IS BEHIND THIS,I THINK SHE GOT MANY MONEY FROM MEDIA TO DO THIS TRASH.IN FACT KIM HYUN JOONG IS MAN OF HONOR,HE ALWAYS TAKE GOOD DECISIONS AND ALL HIS ATTITUDE IN ALL THIS MESS IS OK.

      Friday, February 27, 2015 at 6:46 pm

      • CAGOME

        I THINK HE NOT MUST BE ASHAMED OR STRESSED BCS WORLD KNOW HE WILL HAVE A KID.FOR MANY PEOPLE IS GOOD NEWS HE WILL BE FATHER.BUT WE NOT UNDERSTAND WHY HE IS PRESSURED WITH THIS BY THAT PERSON AND SHE NOT LET HIM TO BE THERE,TO SEE WITH HIS EYES HIS BABY,IF THAT BABY IS REAL HOW SHE SAY…I THINK HE MUST BE NORMAL,,NATURAL,TO HAVE NORMAL LIFE BCS HE NOT DID SOMETHING WRONG.HE IS NORMAL MAN,WITH FEELINGS,WITH EMOTIONS,AND NOT DESERVE THIS MESS.

        Friday, February 27, 2015 at 6:49 pm

    • CAGOME

      I AM SURE THAT WOMAN IS PAID BY BLACK MEDIA TO DO THIS AND SHE NOT HAVE ANY GOOD SENSE OR SHAME.I AM SURE WILL BE MORE EPISODES LIKE THIS,IS BLACKMAIL.MAYBE IF SHE CONTINUE THIS OUR ONLY ONE CAN DEMAND HIS RIGHT TO BE PROTECTED BY BLACKMAIL AND HARASSMENT IN MEDIA .HE CAN TAKE ACTIONS IN INSTANCE AGAINST THAT MEDIA WHO GIVE NEWS ABOUT HIS PRIVACY WITHOUT HIS ACCEPT.

      Friday, February 27, 2015 at 6:53 pm

  9. CAGOME

    THANK FOR SHARING THIS ARTICLE.THANK TO HIS PARENTS FOR THIS VERY WISE INTERVENTION IN MEDIA.ALL PEOPLE WITH GOOD SENSE WILL UNDERSTAND HOW IS TRUE.THANK TO KIM HYUN JOONG PARENTS FOR THEIR ATTITUDE AND COURAGE TO CONFRONT ALL WORLD AND TO TELL THEIR POINT OF VIEW FOR SHOW WHAT IS TRUE.HOPE HIS MOTHER IS WELL WITH HEALTHY.HOPE OUR ONLY ONE IS WELL AND PLEASE ,PLEASE OUR ONLY ONE TAKE CARE WITH YOU,EAT WELL AND BE STRONG!PEOPLE BELIEVE YOU,BELIEVE IN YOU AND YOU MUST BE STRONG FOR ALL YOUR FAMILY,YES?OUR ONLY ONE!PLEASE PROMISE YOU ARE WELL!PLEASE BE WELL AND HEALTHY!WE KNOW HOW MUCH PRESSURE IS IN YOUR SOUL NOW,BUT YOU MUST BE STRONG TO MANAGE ALL WITH A LOT LOVE AND WISDOM!

    Friday, February 27, 2015 at 3:54 pm

    • CAGOME

      WE YOUR WORLDWIDE FAN FAMILY SUPPORT YOU WITH ALL OUR SOUL,WE PRAY FOR YOU AND FOR ALL TO BE WELL.NOT BE AFRAID!YOU ARE ALWAYS MAN OF HONOR.

      Friday, February 27, 2015 at 3:56 pm

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