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[Pexers Write-Ups] 김현중 KIM HYUN JOONG: Choosing His Own Adventures + LDFS April 2015 Wallpaper Calendar #neverleaveKHJ #2015KHJPhoenix

Author:  AprilStarr  Pexers Write-Ups on Facebook

We’ve been told life is a mix bag of adventures with no clear cut keys to its endings.

Education creates the paths or is a pathfinder. However, outside of that institution lays a myriad of challenges and yes, opportunities. What one does without stepping foot in it or in spite of it is another story.

It is often said it is up to the individual to choose his own road or allow others to select for him/her.Some go for the well beaten avenues, others make their own ways never mind the dust, the road imperfections,the junctures and crossroads.

Kim Hyun Joong’s choices are not for everyone. Maybe some of those choices resulted to some bad judgement and miscalculations here and there. False reading and faulty insights led to certain conclusions. But who does it right all the time anyway?

Besides, there is a private and public life -and a world of difference between the two. Where the private life intrude into the public and vice versa incongruence occurs. Expectations may not be met at least to the eyes of his public.

Life scripts are not always written the way we want them to . Because there are many characters we have to consider -their own motives and agenda besides our own. When ours and others do not coincide and endings cannot be neatly tied by nice colored ribbons trouble begins. And because he is a public figure looming larger than life, it creates not ripples but waves of disturbances.

Rewatching throwback videos makes one wonder and wish what if and if only things can be rewind back and undo what has been done. Rewriting history to travel backward and make the necessary cure and correction.

Or to have the warning like the drama Mirae’s Choice where the main protagonist encountered her future self and that self warned her of consequences of her choices at present.

Alas, our man cannot have those means. He can perhaps only look back like the rest of us, chuckle, and say ‘If I only knew then what I know now’.

Life’s adventures are not always given to us like a well written fairytale book whose endings are predictable like living happily ever after. Or slaying the bloated monsters of the kingdom and for the prize-the hand of the princess or the affection of the prince But those endings are getting to be boring after a while.

Kim Hyun Joong ‘s life saga is not written in the books. Some may wish for him to pursue his life events in its”proper sequences”. But he doesn’t, thank you very much. Is he an enigma? So many are already playing psychologists, counselors, soothsayers, faith healers, quack fortune tellers and horoscope readers in the attempt to understand him and put his ‘life in order’.

However, whatever final order in the present disorder we desire for him, it’s his life. In his own uniqueness, he choose and will continue to make his own adventures. He will find his way out and as he will will find there are more adventures to meet. The roads to take are aplenty ahead.

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7 responses

  1. Thank you so much for this post. I think it is difficult at times for us, his fans to differentiate between the public KHJ and the private KHJ because our feelings are so intense it seems as though we know ALL of KHJ. The truth is we don’t and we should not. KHJ is a public figure. Is it ok to love him as a family member? Of course, it’s inevitable as his fan because he does share himself with us. He is very private, but when he does share, it is profound and honest and we are LOST in LOVE. It is unavoidable. So, how do we keep a clear head and draw that distinct line? How do we love him with all our might and still give him his private life? I have found the boundaries are very clear and we must follow those for his health and safety. If we truly love him as we say, we will give him his space because we know it is for his own good. I like the idea of the fan above who posted a link to the fb page for fan fantasies. Indulge in your fantasies and get them out of your hearts so you can make that clear distinction. Know that the fantasies belong in the fantasy world, and the care and protection of the person we truly love belongs in the real world. It takes discipline of your heart and mind but he is so very worth it!

    Sunday, April 5, 2015 at 2:37 am

  2. anasarca2

    Everyone makes mistakes, that’s how we learn how to become better adults. Wish the best for him in the future.

    Friday, April 3, 2015 at 11:30 am

  3. Jazu

    Thanks, your words are touchable,( ¨So many are already playing psychologists, counselors, soothsayers, faith healers, quack fortune tellers and horoscope readers in the attempt to understand him and put his ‘life in order’.) that is true, everybody deals with his problem as it is theirs. What a shame, I wonder , how difficult is to respect him, his decisions, his way to face things In his own uniqueness 4D, the way he deals with medias. How he feels now, it is the enigma. He is unpredictable in this kind of problems. He had never faced it before, a manipulative girl, so irrespectful, hope that he has the picture clear now. God bless him and gives him wisdom to do the best for eveyone, even if someone will be hurt with this decision. It is probably that HE, will be the one to be hurt the most.

    Wednesday, April 1, 2015 at 9:30 am

  4. 심란

    Hello ! Firstly i would like to thank u for the post u write ! U are doing such a great job ! Actually i have a page DREAMS OF THE GREEN STAR. Which is for sharing the dreams of KIM HYUN JOONGS GREEN STARS which are the henecians itself. (green lightsticks. Green uzoosins) in the grup we will post the dreams of henecians their fantacies . The silly thoughts we have. The dream of meeting him, spending a day with him, being his best friend. The two years with kim hyun joong going for ms we can share our memories so that the henecian family stays strong and happy !
    Plz make a reference of it or promote it so that more and more henecians know about it !
    Thank you.
    Link for the page —

    Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at 7:35 pm

  5. emmy

    As a fan, i think that our dear one will survive this. His choices may not be something that we understand. But knowing khj, he would always use his heart. And i trust his heart more than the media. Our heart in the end can only tell us if we did right. A heart at peace is a heart which decided well. My only wish is that our dear one is at peace. Let us let him rest. So he can gather his strength and soar again. Higher.

    Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at 2:18 pm

  6. Ahmad Kim Hj

    Felt like a knife stabbing my heart.. when I read your article on The Blank.. hope he will be guided by the Al-Mighty One & Only One to the right path..May he find strength to fight back.. to continue stand tall.. believe in his own self.. to find peace with himself.. and always be happy..

    Monday, March 30, 2015 at 1:46 am

  7. Bella

    Thank you very much AprilStarr. Can’t say anything more. Great article. Really hope the best for him. He surely will be stronger and I hope wiser too.

    Sunday, March 29, 2015 at 8:56 pm

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