Dedicated to SS501 4D Leader Kim Hyun Joong

[Pexers Write-Ups] The Charms of a Man

Author:  AprilStarr

It is as if he swallowed a glob of a magnet the way he attracts people. His magnetic field is broad and wide. He doesn’t even have to reinvent himself, it just get so like having a life of its own. He is someone you can’t help but be amused at the same time chuckle at what he gets himself into. He is likened to that proverbial donkey that fell into a well. The dirt thrown at him he used to climb back out of his situation.

You can be mad at him but not for long. As some people say he turns on his charms without doing anything, even just standing there.Sometimes he looks like a lost child needing to be cuddled and reassured. Maternal instincts stimulant. When he oozes that manly charms the ladies and the not ladies , or even not so lady-like melt.

He can be funny, chatty and chummy. Ask any of his real friends who will surely miss him all this time of MS. Does he foot the bill when they go have a good time ? I don’t know. Does it help that he is a looker even when sans makeup, without his trademark smiles and saluting during in his enlistment ceremony last may 12th ? Of course.

He must have been born attracting controversies from the time of conception (according to legend), to his decisions to favour his music more than studies,to run away from home and experience the harsh reality of being homeless and hungry,to be a trainee and meet early disappointments. Insiders know his subsequent bouts with the hardships of his occupation, going solo, being in dramas where people were critical of his acting. the most dramatic to end all dramas is his recent real life storyline depicting a love story turned into an expensive time consuming war.

How he dealt with all the above show another side of his charms. We may never know the depths of his heartaches but he is resilient and maybe sees opportunities in his personal crises aka mess.

He is wounded with many targeting him with poisoned arrows. But he learned to survive in this jungle of entertainment world. He is humbled that in spite of them all he is well loved for which he acknowledges his debt of gratitude.

Isn’t it ironic that as he shields his private life the more it gets exposed and dragged around ? He has the true celebrity syndrome as he is embroiled in these madness. Maybe we will see another Kim Hyun Joong after he emerges from his MS of 21 months. He promised.


11 responses

  1. Elorac

    Nice write, Aprilstarr. Agree with you. He is easy an easy one to love with his truly magnetic persona. Two years will pass quickly and at that time, think of how amazing it will be to see the newly matured, renewed, and post-MS Kim Hyun Joong ready to take on the world with his charms again! We wait patiently, or not, for his return. Wishing for nothing but the ultimate happiness for him in his personal and public life. It has been so hard to see him beaten down the way he has been, but his sheer will and strong drive gives confidence that he will be alright. He is not alone, ever.

    Wednesday, May 20, 2015 at 10:07 pm

  2. fanJoong

    He is the man to love

    Wednesday, May 20, 2015 at 6:25 pm

  3. Svetlana

    Thank you AprilStarr. You amazing exactly said.

    Wednesday, May 20, 2015 at 5:02 pm

  4. Tina

    beautiful words april, let’s pray for his fast return to entertainment with more popularity than he had even before this nightmare came out 🙂

    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 7:58 pm

  5. Cagome


    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 3:18 pm

  6. bella

    Thank you so much April. For the beautiful article. I love what you said because it’s so true. You has described the uniqueness of his charm that i have experienced it myself. There is also something very innocent in his character and personality that I adore. It is really a beauty side of a human being. Sadly to realize this kind of beauty with his honesty and his sincerity had been used to destroy him and hurt his spirit.

    I hope whatever pain that has inflicted on him will be gently replaced by the love and respect of all his fans and people who believe in him.

    I wish the power of God and Gos’s love for him will protect him and rescue him from an ill-will of the evil and a greedy soul .

    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 1:47 pm

    • Svetlana

      I echo your words, agree with it.

      Wednesday, May 20, 2015 at 4:58 pm

  7. emmy

    I really appreciate your thoughts, ms. April starr. ☺
    Let us always be united in loving him and supporting. It’s quite tiring to see the exchange of claims bet khj’s camp & that of ms. Choi. Now, as a fan, i just do not want to be hurt (everyday) for khj but to pray for him & this saga in his life. I hope that one day the truth will be revealed and khj’s life will not be paraded anymore before the public’s eyes. I wish him total peace from this. ☺

    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 1:07 pm

    • bella

      I wish the same.

      i remembered in one of his GEMINI Tour HJ said to fans ” tomorrow will be better than today “.
      I believe that too.

      Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 1:51 pm

  8. Aimee

    Nicely said.

    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 11:53 am

  9. Mayra

    KIM HYUN JOONG so gorgeous!!!

    Tuesday, May 19, 2015 at 8:57 am

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