[Pexers Write-Ups] The Charms of a Man
It is as if he swallowed a glob of a magnet the way he attracts people. His magnetic field is broad and wide. He doesn’t even have to reinvent himself, it just get so like having a life of its own. He is someone you can’t help but be amused at the same time chuckle at what he gets himself into. He is likened to that proverbial donkey that fell into a well. The dirt thrown at him he used to climb back out of his situation.
You can be mad at him but not for long. As some people say he turns on his charms without doing anything, even just standing there.Sometimes he looks like a lost child needing to be cuddled and reassured. Maternal instincts stimulant. When he oozes that manly charms the ladies and the not ladies , or even not so lady-like melt.
He can be funny, chatty and chummy. Ask any of his real friends who will surely miss him all this time of MS. Does he foot the bill when they go have a good time ? I don’t know. Does it help that he is a looker even when sans makeup, without his trademark smiles and saluting during in his enlistment ceremony last may 12th ? Of course.
He must have been born attracting controversies from the time of conception (according to legend), to his decisions to favour his music more than studies,to run away from home and experience the harsh reality of being homeless and hungry,to be a trainee and meet early disappointments. Insiders know his subsequent bouts with the hardships of his occupation, going solo, being in dramas where people were critical of his acting. the most dramatic to end all dramas is his recent real life storyline depicting a love story turned into an expensive time consuming war.
How he dealt with all the above show another side of his charms. We may never know the depths of his heartaches but he is resilient and maybe sees opportunities in his personal crises aka mess.
He is wounded with many targeting him with poisoned arrows. But he learned to survive in this jungle of entertainment world. He is humbled that in spite of them all he is well loved for which he acknowledges his debt of gratitude.
Isn’t it ironic that as he shields his private life the more it gets exposed and dragged around ? He has the true celebrity syndrome as he is embroiled in these madness. Maybe we will see another Kim Hyun Joong after he emerges from his MS of 21 months. He promised.