Dedicated to SS501 4D Leader Kim Hyun Joong

[Pexers Write-Ups] Life Changing Revelations


Author:  AprilStarr

The DNA test result has been revealed what many knew all along. KHJ knew and never denied it nor refused his paternal responsibility in spite of what the other party is trying its best to say otherwise. To KHJ’s credit he has been consistent regarding the baby.

So what is the other party’s fuss about now that the DNA test confirmed the relationship? It is now in the courts to decide the financial awarding to raise a child excluding the mother. I read somewhere this Choi Hye Mi is asking for alimony. I know that alimony is only asked if the couple is married. Were they married though her lawyer always point out they lived together for two years?Unless I missed out on something or that SK has a different law. For sure it is not going to be one sided if they want HJ to acknowledge he is the father. Like visitation rights, whose family registry will include the baby, and other future concerns.

Usually the mother during the early years takes care of the baby. Her lawyer played up her being alone and lonely during her pregnancy months to elicit public sympathy. Will there be more emotional appeal now that the baby is growing up as what HJ’s father fears of using the baby as ” bargaining chip”?

On on the other hand, what becomes of HJ – ‘ single dad’, ‘ unwed father’? Society seems to be more open and accomodating to males who are raising kids without partners. Traditional parenting duties are no longer the sole domain of one but has now reverse the roles. This is due to many factors like careers,preferences, disabilities,technology and social media influences.

HJ has stated in his interviews that he is not ready for marriage due to his work, but it seemed he is okay for becoming a baby daddy. Whatevre lifestyle changes he has to face and do with this new status remains to be seen.

5 responses

  1. luvonlykhj

    I congratulate khj and wellcome baby boy..cukkaee khj..my opinion, if bitchchoi could’nt afford (money) to take care khj’s son, well.. custody should goes to khj..

    Sunday, December 27, 2015 at 3:22 pm

  2. If the DND is correct and he is taking responsibilty the child surname should be under him. She is suing him for alimony because the lawyer said they live togethef for two year and she is alone and lonely during her pregrancy . She is a willing to live with him. If I am a man I will also not live with her even she is pregrant when she is suing him before this battle. Ask how many man is willingly to do that

    Saturday, December 26, 2015 at 2:57 pm

  3. Like I said before, I think KHJ need a second opinion, do another paternity test where KHJ pay to go. He can ask the judge, can you do that because you don’t trust her either. If that test come out with the same 99.999. Then we would know for sure or KHJ would know for sure. I don’t trust them. Its a reason why they wanted him go with them. If she was a 100 percent sure, that was his child it wouldn’t have made any different where they went to take the test. She saying she don’t trust him, we don’t trust her either. I would check to make sure for my benefit.

    Saturday, December 26, 2015 at 2:20 pm

    • yes, the be great. I do hope try it again. I was thinking about it. He was sure it not his Baby. he left her before christmas.hewas very happy and tell family about it.so shout I do think he get to try it again.

      Saturday, December 26, 2015 at 2:55 pm

    • CAGOME

      I AGREE.THANK YOU SANDRA.

      Saturday, December 26, 2015 at 8:45 pm

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